A friend of mine was asking me the other day, "What do you do when you have something so dark that you cannot let anyone in this world know about it, you can't tell your friends and family is not an option but you have to share it with someone or you'll go crazy?"--- I had no answer for her. I tried telling her to consult a very close friend. But she said, she didn't want any of her friends to know about it cause when she's with them she can forget about all the bad things and just be herself, she doesn't want to spoil it. Then I told her to share it with family. She said the problem WAS the family... she tried sharing with her closest family member but it doesn't seem to help. The poor thing... I offered my help also but she says she doesn't want me to think badly about certain people I know (figure that out...I couldn't).
Well...if you have any suggestions for my poor little friend be spontaneous to share and if you don't..then pray for her so that her problems are over soon ...
2 comments:
You are not talking about me, right? :P
For your friend, I'd suggest talking to a therapist. Or a complete stranger! If she can.
Also another thing, she might try talking to you under the circumstances that you aren't seeing each others face during that. Specially at a dark place. This usually helps to forget what you were talking about. But she has to talk. Otherwise she'd go crazy for sure.
okay...i'll tell her that...but i don't think she'll talk to me... :S i thought about the therapist but u know how difficult it is here to get professional help and not let the neighbors know about it... but i'll tell her to talk to a total stranger ..if she can find one.. :P
n thanx 4 ur advise ... i miss u dear... a lot.. :(
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